My Sister and I went to the Family reunion several years ago. Had to travel for 5 hours to get there. we went to the park and waited all afternoon in the heat. We went back to the motel room and looked through the invitation that we received and called one of the Cousins on the list. Seems that one of the Cousins passed away that morning and since we had not come for 30 years they did not call and let us know. We have chuckeled over it for years.