My daughter in law is a funeral director and son does headstones so I think they have it all figured out already.
My aunt was murdered a few years ago but an unknown person who got into her car...anyway her little memorial folder had photos of her quilts as well as the saying, "Housework Never, Quilting Whenever" or something like that. I think my ddil stuck that in my little "arrangement" folder at the funeral home.
And we all know "she who dies with the most fabric is still dead so when is the yard sale".