I agree that the quilt is for the baby, and that the baby is a completely innocent little soul. Having said that, and having heard that one of the previous baby quilts was given to the dog, I might give the mom a gift certificate for now, then make #3 (or #3 and #4) a toddler size quilt when they outgrow their crib. By the time the baby is in a toddler bed, it will be able to understand that you made a quilt just for them, and it will be special. Who knows what might happen to a baby quilt that you make right now?