I am 51 and had surgery at 40 and wow did all this hit me.I started HRT and stopped in Feb. was ok for a while, now this THING has hit me again all the temp. changes staying wet with sweat till I feel like a wet dishrag. I decided to check into a new pill I heard about on the radio.Its called Amberen you can read about it on the internet,this is helping me quite a bit. Pm me if you want more info.about cost and such.