Originally Posted by donnajean
I can relate! I only hear from my nieces when they think they deserve presents. I can't get excited when they choose to have babies out of wedlock. I just feel bad for the babies as I know the fathers will not be around long.
Third child and still living at home unmarried? I may be a bit too staunch and conservative, but getting excited about this and celebrating poor life planning and lack of responsibility is not great. Why not just get a savings bond for the baby and set an example of living financially responsibly?