She can pass down the earlier quilts you made. I'm in the same boat. I have 2 nieces that have made a career out of being pregnant. The youngest (I haven't heard from since she was 5) had gone through some of my quilt pics on FB and picked out a tote she wanted and sent me her baby shower order....right down to the "I don't like those handles, I want my handles made out of the stripe you used in the tote". Well, sister, I am out of the stripe. I didn't send anything to the shower, but after she had the baby I felt guilty and sent her a quilt. Obviously, she didn't like it. No thank you. None of the pics of the baby have a pic with the quilt in the background, and she is uploading hundreds of pics. It's like you have a minute-by-minute timeline of this child growing up. A month later, my half-sister sends me an e-mail that says "thanks". Really???? you are NOT obligated!