My daughter got married in 2 months. Main thing is to pick a place for the reception since they book early.We didn't find an elegant place but had a great reception at a neighborhood place. They took care of everything- the band, flowers for the tables etc. The bridesmaids were able to order select gowns and get them in time. Luckily we went to a dept. store that was clearing out their bridal dept. They had a nice selection and my daughtr bought the first gown she tried on. It needed very little alterations. Looked like it was made for her. We had just moved into a different house 3 months earlier and I was painting stair rails while trying to plan the wedding. The church organ had been sent out for refurbishing so we had a piano and a violinist which was just beautiful. I was also working full time then.The wedding turned out beautifully. Don't worry it will all fall into place. Enjoy it. You'll smile when you look back on it.