You did the right thing. The first recipient did not deserve the quilt. She is selfish, rude, thoughtless and inconsiderate. You are to be given kudo's for not saying more to her when she told you to take it back and get her something else. She doesn't realize how precious a gift that you gave to her. Gifts of love come from the heart. It's too bad she is so materlistic and can't appreciate what was given to her. I feel sorry for her husband. She is demanding and immature. I pray that her children won't be like her.
The quilt that you made is beautiful. I'm glad you had it to give to someone who would appreciate it. Hugs, Cheryl