I'm so sorry that you lost your friend.. I can't imagine how I would feel..
I can tell you though, that the hand made gifts you gave her meant the world to her. I have a friend whose birthday was yesterday. I have usually only given her a card, but on two occasions, I came up with home made gifts. Both times (4 years apart) she toted them around with her to brag about them and show them to other friends.
The love you put into your beautiful quilt and poncho, I'm sure were treasured. Cherish your memories.
God bless you.