The Initial recipient was NOT GOOD ENOUGH to receive so a thoughtful & wonderful gift. I beleive you had it right the first time (as far as first recipient was concerned). I believe that the quilt "new that first persons house was not its home". I am so glad that the rightful recipient was so open & thankful for your wonderful quilt.
The best loved quilt is a used quilt.
Have a blessed day/weekend.
debra