No matter what you do nor how hard you work to please, you must remember the world is full of ignorant, ungrateful, tacky people. It is most important to not let it get you down. So happy you had the backbone to ask for it back and to give it to someone who appreciates not only the beautiful quilt but you for making it for her baby. While I could excuse a 10yr old niece (with a little reprimand) I cannot tolerate grownups who act like ill mannered children.