My baby went away to college last year with the understanding that he would not be coming home every weekend. (he was 2 hours away) We want him to have the full college experience, dorm life, parties included. I feel we've done a good job raising him, he's pretty level headed and it was time to cut those strings. I know it's hard giving up control but isn't that why we work so hard to raise them correctly? Trust him and trust yourself.....you'll be so proud of him!