Originally Posted by Lisa_wanna_b_quilter
It's hers. She can do whatever she wants with it. Grit your teeth and remember she isn't a quilt person. The next gift you give her should be a gift card to a store she likes.
I have to agree the hardest part sometimes is to understand that people who do not quilt do not understand all the work and love it takes to make them. So you have to let it go. You have to forget about it. You do not have to see it.. It was given from your heart and you and God know that.. That is all you can expect.. My heart goes out to ya, it is very beautiful but it is not worth hard feelings it is just fabric, and in time it will fade and wither... your relationship will last a life time and beyond if you cultivate it. Just know I have had the same thoughts... because we do it with them in mind. Huggs