I've been thinking about this since I posted this morning. Still haven't come to a definite decision. I tend to agree that something should be said. The organizer isn't the hostess. And starting my own Bee seems like a good idea, I've got another friend already interested in an open sew someplace else. How do I address my complaint to the organizer? "Dear Lily, I've been meaning to mention this for a while...I am tired of the moaning and bitching? and I am tired of the lack of comraderie?" "I don't feel welcome with these ladies?" I suppose I could just bow out, and not explain. Just say "This isn't working for me"...