this is very common, you'll see posts here of people complaining that their quilt didn't get the response they wanted.
they used it for their pet, i've never seen them use the quilt, etc.
the biggest mistake these people make is thinking everyone wants and likes their quilts and thats just not true.
you should give a gift that they would want to have not what you think they should have.
you should feel grateful that they told you the truth and you don't have to waste your time and money on a gift they will not enjoy.