I had made a Granny's Flower Garden all by hand some years ago. I offered it to my oldest daughter, who graciously declined it. I made what I call cuddle quilts (fleece backed) for her three daughters for last Christmas - they loved them and insist on using them every night! I then embarked on a king-sized quilt for my younger daughter. The older one looked very wistfully at it. I asked her whether she would like me to make her a quilt which she could choose the colours and design. She jumped at it! Maybe she has learnt over time to appreciate quilts! Perhaps your family need to be 'taught' about quilts......