it is like when you give someone a gift( a quilt WOW) and they don't like it. You have done your part. The counter to this is when you make 1 for your #3 son's wedding gift. OMG, They divorice. Now the new Mrs. and son decide they should bring the quilt back to you. They have funny "feelings about it". It hung around and hung around so.....Son #2's x-wife was at the house to get my gr son and I gave it to her. She didn't feel funny about it at all, in fact she loved it. OMG OMG Son#3/Mrs were upset. I was in soooooo much trouble. I finally got it right when I made son #3/Mrs a set of twin quilts. What did they want me to do with it? I found it a new home. OHHH WEll. I know that doesn't fix your situation, but they are not quilt people and they don't have a clue what a quilt is, does...the thought, work, planning. It is total rejection and I am sorry this happened to you.