I am very fortunate, All of my family loves my quilts, and my Mom as even helped me buy fabric for my nieces and nephews so I could get more done :-) I borrowed my 3 year old Grand sons quilt for a couple of week to do a trunk show and he was so happy to have it back he grabbed it and ran and hid it so I wouldn't take it again (yes they drag them all over the house) but they use them in bed and on the couch and love them if they wear them out Ill just make them another one they are to be used and loved!