Mousie you are at a great time in your life. I remember when my grandchildren were small. I made a quilt for my youngest grandson to use at naptime at school. His brother was 4 years older and he wanted to help. I let him "quilt" with my embroidery stitch that was shaped like an airplane. His dad had a pilot's license and loved to fly. He took the boys up with him. When their dad came to pick them up the older boy was so proud of all the airplanes he had made on his brother's quilt. His dad was all upset because I was trying to make his sons "gay". I told him to take a pill and get over himself. Many men enjoy needlework and they are definitely not gay. :-) :-) :-)