Hello It is nice to hear from someone who is so close. I grew up and went to school in Merced. I also lost my mom to cancer in Oct of 2008. My heart goes out to you. It is a long battle that I hope she wins. Quilting will help to relieve the stress that you are going through with this nasty battle.
You can PM me anytime if you need to talk or feel the need to just relieve some tension. I have been there and will be more than happy to give you a shoulder to lean on if you need it.
Enjoy the time with her and relax
Gayle