Rose,
Go to the Boots on the Ground website for a list of things to send (and what not to send) as well as packing tips.
http://www.bootsonground.com/soldier...sted-items.htm
And I think it might be a good idea for some of us on this board to contribute or make up some packages for our troops. I'll bet that your cuz'n'law knows some soldiers who don't have family to send squishies, or maybe something could be sent to the whole squad. Whatcha think ladies?