If anyone can relate to your grief, it is we Americans. December 7 (Pearl Harbor Day) and 9/11 will always revive a deep sadness in us. I am so sorry that Norway now has to join that group of nations so unjustly attacked.
Let us all join in a common effort of prayer that all nations, all religions and creeds, may soon unite in a different kind of effort: peaceable happiness for all.
It seems so little to ask.
May God heal your deep, deep wounds.