OK - I'm sending my other half to your house for lessons!!!!
Mine asks when supper will be ready; He offers to get the vacuum out for me; he leaves his clothes laying around although he will put them in the wash but leaves them in the dryer for me to fold and put away; He writes his name in the dust on the furniture; but....he does help with groceries, doesn't complain about my stash (much) and buys me whatever I want. Thinking about asking for maid service for a year as a xmas gift!!!