if i had to hide my purchases from my dh, i would soon be hiding me from my dh and he wouldn't be so d.
dh and i have expensive hobbies and we spend what we want to and can at the time. no questions asked, no answers offered.
we'll soon be going to the new england quilt show in manchester, new hampshire and staying in the hotel that the show is in. he has things to do all lined up and we'll meet for dinner each night.
the last day, he'll join me and see the best of the quilts.
in return i go to fishing shows with him. boooooring. but i go.