Wow! sounds like you've surrounded yourself with the worst that the quilt police force has to offer. I'm glad to see that you're turning over a new leaf. It'll make your time that you can spend creating so much more enjoyable. You're right - you ARE an artist - and no one else gets to determine whether you're qualified for that title or not.
YOU GO GIRL!!! :thumbup:
Quit stressing and start enjoying your quilting.....beginning today!