Bless your heart, PPQ. I am so happy you learned this lesson so young. I was about that age when I realized I did not have to play a different role for every person in my life, because I was fine, just like God made me, and life has been a lot easier since then. Be artistic to your own tune. If everyone in the band played the same instrument and the same part, where would the harmony be? Let rudeness of others slide off your back, dear. Every day in every way, we are getting better and better at being who we are, and no one else can do that for us. Bravo, and happy quilting. ;)