Sometime back I responded to this post stating the over reaction. It still is an over reaction. The number of unexplained SIDS deaths often get blamed on things such as a quilt for sake of finding an answer and bringing closure even when it's wrong. If you are really that worried about it give the parent a copy of the info on baby saftey with the quilt you make. A dear friend prayed and cried with me as we longed for a child. She made a quilt and sent it but died before ever meeting the little ones she prayed for, that quilt is very precious. One of the fastest ways to turn off any new parent is to tell them does and don'ts. The reality is you can destroy your life and theirs with fear of the what ifs or you can live it with confidence.