Originally Posted by tabsmonsters
I am in a pickle. This young wife whose husband works with mine found out that I sew and in the last several months has brought me sofa pillows that popped a seam, a stuffed animal that popped a seam and the other day my hubby brought home a blanket that she needed the binding sewn back on. When I returned it to her this morning, she mentioned another project she needs fixed. Its a simple project, sewing a bow back onto a costume but her excuse was she didn't have needle and thread. I am just beyond irritated that she seems to think that because I have a sewing machine and I know how to fix these things, she can bring me all sorts of projects. I was still fuming this afternoon and bought a cheap sewing kit to give to her the next time I see her and I plan on SHOWING her how to sew that bow on. It really isn't that difficult. I guess I have just been feeling used and I don't know how to tactfully deter her from using me as her personal seamstress or sewing fix-it-all. Thanks for letting me vent!
Honestly, non sewers often just do not understand how much we hate mending things!
Do all that - sewing kit etc and when you give it to her, gripe about a "ficticious" friend that does not "understand
that you are not running an alterations business"!
and perhaps make a quilted mug rug, placemat, or little simple (coloring book style) flower wall hanging, to bring her and give to her, explaining that is what you really do! ....and maybe offer her a discount on just ONE baby quilt.