I went through the same thing about two weeks ago. My sons girlfriend did the same thing. She took the two quilts and one large receiving blanket out of the bag and just gave them a glance and put them back. Didn't even open them up.
Her mom and sister on the other hand opened them, checked the stitiching and asked questions. They gushed over them. It hurt my feelings that the one person I wanted to like them seemed indifferent. I shook it off. The reason being I haven't got time to let someone else make me feel bad. I also think it might have something to do with the generation. Lets face it some of todays young people don't appreciate hand made items like we do. If it isn't store bought, it just isn't up to snuff. But then there are those out there who love the hand made items and when they receive them they show they are appreciated.
I think you quilt is lovely. You did a nice job.