Its a lovely quilt...and I agree that when I make something, I just have to say when it leaves my hands, it is out of my control...that being said, I know it is hurtful, and you shouldn't feel bad about feeling hurt that it didn't seem that she "got" how much work and love went into it...maybe going through everything at home, she will see the label, and really understand the love and work in it...and, I also agree now you know that something "store bought" is ok for a gift for her...
There was 1 quilt I gave as a gift, the person said "thanks", and went on....several months later I saw the person again, and he said, "I want to tell you I really looked at the quilt you made for me, and the amount of work you did is amazing. I don't think I ever let you know how much I appreciate it..", and the quilt is hanging in his home in a main hallway! So, you never know...