I find nowadays they want designer this and designer that they have no idea that quilt is worth more then any designer stuff that is over priced and won't hold up like the things we make. It's a whole new world out there. My friend just went through this too. I would ask her if she doesn't like it to give it back and you will get her something else. I'd buy something from the store but not a designer one...Buy her diapers she'll need them. The quilt was beautiful. When my niece got married I made them one but I was so afraid she wouldn't like it and do the same thing she did, but what she said was I was hoping you would make me a quilt I will cherish this always. I was so relieved. She is now divorced but she got the quilt.....