Originally Posted by Quiltinvaca
Each guild is a little different - some do more charity work, some have gobs of classes, some are "stitch & bitch" groups .
My suggestion for any group/organization you join is to VOLUNTEER for something right away. People complain that clubs/guilds/groups are cliquish(?) but that's generally because they show up for a meeting, never volunteer, never speak up, etc. When you want to be part of a group - put yourself out there -- ask what you can do.
I so agree with what you say. I often hear folks say, I went there and no one spoke to me. Maybe you just sat next to someone who is shy and you are faulting them for being just like you. The way to get to know folks is put yourself out there, don't just sit and wait for folks to find out how great you are, let them know. Be a part of the group, not just a guest. A guild is what you put into it.