Hi Welcome from Colchester in England, I know you feel like you don't have many minutes to spare but even one or two spent doing something you love will mean YOU are a lovelier mum for the rest of the time. I swore when my 3 were little that I would make them each a quilt to take with them to University. My baby has just heard today he has got a place doing Maths and his quilt will be ready( but ONly JUST LOL) in time for him to take a piece of home with him.! Welcome to the friendliest bunch of people I@ve never met!