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A cut finger -
is numb before it bleeds.
it bleeds before it hurts.
it hurts until it begins to heal.
it forms a scab and itches until
finally, the scab is gone and
a small scar is left where
once there was a wound.
Grief is the deepest wound you have
ever had. Like a cut finger,
It goes through stages and
leaves a scar.
Hope this gives you some ideas with little cost.