Emptynester. That means when the kids leave right. First time no kids, I was 40. The the oldest came back and left again (from school), 42. The second time he came back (separated from wife) 48. The third time he came back (lost a job and had to find another one) 51. He keeps coming back like a bad penny. But really, He is a good guy with poor luck. I would rather they know they can ask to come home than not have a place to go but the streets. I enjoy my boys and am pretty lucky to have them as friends.