42-and loving every minute of it. Grandkids are now grown and great grands are coming on the scene. #1 is a year, #2 is a month, #3 will be born in a couple weeks and #4 will be in Sept. Once the kids were grown and basically on their own (out of high school that is-from then on they just visit) grin. Between school and jobs I saw very little of them -After marriage they were at a distance, until a couple years ago when the youngest son bought the house across the street. No not to close (grin) We both respect the street between the homes.
After the youngest was gone, I just kept quilting. Teaching, writing, etc etc. Now I am 72 and still not feeling the empty nest, just filled the hole with husband,friends, neighbors and quilting. Just think positive and enjoy the time your kids have to give you. they will be busy, but enjoy the times you have.