Thanks every one for your responses, please keep them coming. My husband retired 15 years ago so it has been a difficult 15 years, as I wanted to be home as well. He has worked off and on in those years. Right now he is caring for our 2 year old DGD while her mom and dad work.
I worked from home for the last 4 years until we got a new director who made us all return to the office. I had left the office as I could not stand the BS at work and the politics.
I find when I come home from work and on weekends I don't want to have to do anything. No demands. Hopefully that will all disappear once I settle down after I retire.
Quilterfay