When God wants it to happen, he will put you there! I lived in CA, Hubby in MS. His CA Aunt and Uncle went to MS to visit in their new motorhome. When they were leaving, they asked him if he wanted to visit CA for a while as they had room for him in the motorhome. He said yes. When he got here, he needed spending money, his Uncle had a painting business and he was a painter in MS. I was working 6 days a week, owned my own home and didn't have time to date much. Went out Monday morning (only day off) to wash my filthy car, he was waiting for the guy he was working with who had the equipment as they were painting the house next door. He came over to talk to me while he was waiting. We dated 1 month, he went home, we talked for two months on the phone, he settled up his business there, came back, and we were married the next month. Fell in love with me and CA. Says he won't move back, even to retire. Did not know each other that well but felt it was soooo right. Been married 31 years. (2 boys, 2 grandkids)