YOU did a great job, now its' time for him to fly. Gather up your fabrics and start sewing. It is wonderful to know they can be on their own. My daughter spent 14 months in Japan, I didn't think I'd survive, she loved it, is back now but my baby is a lawyer in NY and I miss him, I know he loves it there but I only see him once a year. That is what being mom is all about