His SIL was my housemate. She asked me to be maid-of-honor and he was best man in their wedding. The four of us would hang out together when I spent the weekends with her. They were married April 29, 1987. My husband proposed to me on May 8. We were married that fall on November 7, 1987. Now we are planning 2 weddings in the coming 2 years.