I gave it up. Really dont care what others think. I dont have time to mess with it, AND I like my silver hair. What I dont like are grey roots, and I always had them! So I quit worrying about it, the only one that has voiced his dislike is dh. he keeps his hair buzzed. Told him id dye my hair if he let his grow out some. End of discussion. The way I figure it, I earned every gray hair on my head, why hide it? LOL