Mine finds something wrong no matter what, even though mine is cleaner than hers. She worries about matching curtains and rugs, picture frames and to get little knick knacks because she saw them at someone else's house. I keep mine clean and as much declutered as possible because DH has a kidney transplant and needs to be in a clean place. We both love animals so we keep 3 tortoises, a dog, a fish tank, and she hates it. The more she hates it the more I get. My house, my rules.