Well, you have a very good point. I guess it is kind of like how I go out and help DH when he needs help in the barn, or something, and then we get in the house and he goes in and sits down and I have to make a meal. LOL Or, he and I pull out a sum of cash to get us through the week...I use mine to pick up items at the store, used to give the kids their lunch money for the week, etc. DH may, occasionally, stop and pick up an item at the store for me. Being the wife is never quite fair in alot of ways.