Originally Posted by jljack
I remind my husband of this very fact...he spends money on his hobbies, but sometimes gets a little annoyed when I spend money on mine. I tell him "fair is fair and I'm spending my overtime money only". But why should I have to justify? He needs to get over it!!! LOL
Then why even get into the discussion?
What would happen if you said calmly "this isn't up for discussion, thanks."?
This is assuming that you don't ask him to justify his hobbies, of course.