I live in Fl. and it seems there is either a palmetto bug or sugar ants walking by and it drives me crazy because I think when I see a bug in the house it means the house is dirty and I know better than that. My husband says we live in Fl. what do you expect. Don't let anyone make you feel bad about anything. Sometimes someone can say something and not mean it the way it comes out but you still feel bad. Stay well. Sue