I like Loretta's reply! I retired in June and soon found that my enthusiasm for activities and projects to be done on weekends and after my husband came home in the evening, was WAY higher than hubby's!! (He works full time as a haematology lab technologist and works his own business several hours a week collecting blood samples from seniors too ill to go to the lab.)
So I made a cute little magnet backed pad to hang on the fridge: "PAUL's Honey-Do List"
Now he can look at what needs to be done, what he has energy for and go through the list at his own pace!
He retires from the hospital in 3 years and I plan to have a very long list for him. I am also going to have my own satellite receiver for the TV in the sewing room because there's no way that I am listening to elevator music for the rest of my days!