Another thing to start on right away and you can do it from home is apply for social security for her, the disability program. Also as others have said the Ronald McDonald house. Also start calling your congressperson and senator, they all have help lines that can help you, guide you and offer assistance. They also should have contact info on the internet, but you might have better luck calling and talking to them. Believe it or not they all have specific staff to help individuals with their problems, so use it.
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And believe in the power of positive thinking, even when it seems so hard. When my brother had a tumor on his brain explode (?) he spent weeks in the intensive care and months in rehab and was told he would never walk again, but eventually he took a few steps. Sorry so long
Sharon