Have you tried contacting the American Diabetes Association? I am not diabetic but my x-husband was. They even had the counts for fast food. They had lots of cook books. You may have tried these and they don't suit you and your lifestyle, that's okay.
I am gluten free and I am allergic to MSG. Right now, I am getting meals from a couple who have a small business cooking meals for people. It is somewhat higher than cooking for myself, however, I love it, and it is there when I get home from work. I order how many meals I want per month and they make an appointment with me to deliver it to my door.
There are places like Diet Gourmet, Tru Meals, and Magic Kitchen who make meals for people, even those on special diets - if that suits your lifestyle and your pocketbook. If you are interested in this sort of thing, look on the web in your area.