Just try to remember that you can tell a dog what you want but you must ASK a CAT! (And it's opinion might NOT be yours!!)LOL I have always had cats in my life and each one is different. Never deside on a particular color, breed, or sex. Just look at a lot of cats or even kittens and the right one will choose you not the other way around. When you get it home just wait till it comes to you on it's own. They like to think they are the one's in charge.