This is not weird! I have one daughter and I do not want her to have to deal with any of this when I pass away. I have bought and paid for my funeral and plot. We have dealt with the local funeral home for over 40 years. My grandmother took care of her funeral and plot when my grandfather passed away over 40 years ago. My mom took care of her funeral and plot several years before she got sick. When she passed away we only had to take her clothes in and pick the day. I even told the funeral director what kind of flowers I want in the arrangement over the casket.